“我喜欢你”的7种截然不同的含义(6)

我们需要理解人性的复杂。我们忠贞地选择了我们的伴侣，并不意味这我们就不能对他人产生任何积极感情。
你需要做的是，接纳自己内心的感受，去思考和探索这份喜欢的来源，这是一个很好的自我觉察的机会。你甚至可以和伴侣分享你对另外一个人的欣赏与喜爱，这或许能够成为你们关系成长的契机。
最后，希望大家都能遇见自己喜欢的人～
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