“战”或“逃”：童年不良经历教会大脑的模式(7)

愿你在面对别人的靠近、或者在面对自己想要靠近他人的愿望时，能够不战不逃、坦然以对。愿有过童年不良经历的你，能够靠着自身对于自身的不放弃，获得付出和给予爱的能力。愿你能够放松对世界的警惕。
安全而孤独地生活下去，还是冒着风险去寻找不孤独的可能，这是个问题。
以上。

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CDC. (2014). The AdverseChildhood Experiences (ACE) Study. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention.