“煤气灯效应”上热搜，这几种有毒的“情感关系”也要注意了……(5)

Layby 路边停车
"Layby" refers to someone who is in a relationship but looking to get out. Instead of risking a period of singleness when it eventually ends, a layby starts laying the groundwork with other women or men who they might want to date next. “路边停车”指的是对方虽然还在跟你谈恋爱，但是已经在想着分手了。这种人在分手以后不会有空窗期，因为他们已经想好了下一个可能的约会对象，并且为此着手准备了。
Those being pursued by a layby should be wary as he or she might well have a number of "next" options lined up - not to mention the fact that they are not technically single. 要是被这种人追求，你可就要当心了，因为对方很有可能同时追求很多人，更别说其可能还没真正单身。
Catch and release 追到就跑

On the other end of the spectrum is the dater who practises the "catch and release". 另一种极品约会者就是那些一追到手就把对方甩了的人。
This is a move favoured by those who enjoys the "chase" part of a relationship, the first flirtations before any commitments are made. 有的人在一段关系中最享受“追逐”的体验，也就是在作出任何实质性承诺之前的暧昧调情。