大表姐詹妮弗·劳伦斯对话维奥拉·戴维斯(38)

有了女儿，让它变得非常敏感的是，因为你在帮助她，给她成长的工具，你其实也是在帮你自己，让自己成长。
You"re healing yourself, you"re healing your own inner child.
你在治愈自己，你在治愈自己内心的孩子。
And listen, even when I talk about my beauty or whatever, I"m talking about it from an observational standpoint. Being a dark-skinned 57-year-old woman, I see how other people, I"m good.
即使当我谈论我的美丽或其他什么的时候，我也是从观察的角度来谈论的。作为一名 57 岁的深肤色女性，我看到别人如何，我很好。
Listen, I"ve been with my husband 23 years.
我和我丈夫在一起 23 年了。
We are so in love with each other.
我们深爱着对方。
It"s wonderful, it"s beautiful, but here"s the thing.
很美好，很幸福，但问题是。
Trauma is deep.
人的创伤很深。
I wish it weren"t.
我希望不是这样。
I wish I could sit here and say I"m a badass, I"m a boss bitch.
我希望我能坐在这里说我喜欢惹是生非，我自信成功又独立。
But I"m sorry, trauma sneaks up on you.
但很抱歉，心灵创伤会悄悄靠近你。
It does. - Yeah.
确实如此。- 是的。
- The little girl always is following you.
这个小女孩总是跟着你。
But it"s something my therapist, my first therapist said to me years ago, which is, Viola, if none of the things change that you sort of don"t like about yourself, if none of them change, would you still be happy?