《女性心理的结构类型》——ToniWolff(15)
2023-04-29 来源:飞速影视
因此, 艺妓类型影响了男性的阴影和阿尼玛的主观面向——一个并非没有危险的问题。因此,她应该并且最好确实意识到了这一关系法则。她本能的兴趣是针对自己以及男性关系中个人内容的部分。对男人来说, 他通常意识不到所有潜能的和细微差别中的关系, 也觉得这些不那么重要, 因为这些细微差别反而会分散他在自身任务上的精力。而对艺妓类型的女性来说, 这些因素却是关键的。而其他一切——社会保障、地位等等——则是不重要的。这同时是艺妓类型的意义也是她的危险所在。如果她忽视了男人 (或她的孩子) 的人格面具的一面, 或者过于盲目地适应了它, 她一定会崇拜个人元素, 并且过分地煽动它, 并可能使男人自己失去对外在现实的清晰视野:例如, 他可能放弃他的职业成为一个“创造性的艺术家”;他可能会离婚, 感觉艺妓类型的女性比他的妻子更了解他,等等。
她坚持一个幻想或一些谬论, 从而成为一个妖妇; 她是喀耳刻, 而不是卡吕普索。
There is great confusion nowadays as a result of the wide-spread abolition of the sexual taboo. It is the order of the day to have relationships--seen from the part of the woman they may either be due to erotic misunderstandings or to professional necessities. For the man, sexuality is the self-evident manifestation of a relationship. For the woman, and in particular for the Hetaira, it is under certain circumstances its result or, according to the individual law of relationship, it should even be kept out of it altogether. In any case it is only appropriate when the relationship as such has been sufficiently developed. Instead of beginning with sexuality, as is frequently done, it may be the eventual result, once a relationship has reached a certain depth and psychic consolidation and may thus represent a psychic equivalent to the security offered in marriage. But since the security afforded by marriage or a profession is of vital necessity to a woman, this need may creep unconsciously into the Hetaira relationship al")d disturb its intrinsic course. One can therefore say that, paradoxically, the ideal Hetaira is that woman who in marriage represents the " containing" , i.e. she who needs personal relationship beyond marriage. Given this, she will be able to realize the relationship, and with it her married life, more consciously and without any secret motives. On the other hand a married woman who is unaware of her Hetaira nature, or has repressed it, is bound to make secret lovers out of her sons and girl friends out of her daughters, binding them exactly as does the mother who is unconscious of her mother nature.
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