TED演讲｜真正厉害的人，都戒掉了玻璃心！(8)

这就是我们为什么要重视心理健康，要注意保持情绪健康。因为，你无法治愈心理上的创伤，如果你都不知道自己受到了伤害的话。孤独不是唯一可能扭曲及误导我们的心理创伤。
Failure does that as well. I once visited a day care center, where I saw three toddlers play with identical plastic toys. You had to slide the red button, and a cute doggie would pop out. One little girl tried pulling the purple button, then pushing it, and then she just sat back and looked at the box with her lower lip trembling.
失败也有同样效果。我曾访问过一个幼儿园，在那儿我观察了三个儿童，在玩完全一样的塑料玩具。你得把一个红色的钮滑开，然后一个可爱的小狗就会跳出来。一个小女孩对紫色的钮又拉又按，然后她就坐下来，瞧着那盒子，下嘴唇开始发颤。
The little boy next to her watched this happen, then turned to his box and burst into tears without even touching it. Meanwhile, another little girl tried everything she could think of until she slid the red button, the cute doggie popped out, and she squealed with delight. So: three toddlers with identical plastic toys, but with very different reactions to failure.
她旁边的一个小男孩看到这一幕，再看着他的盒子，都没动手就哇哇大哭了。与此同时，另一个小女孩试了各种方法，直到她滑动了那个红钮，可爱的小狗跳了出来，她开心的叫了起来。同样的塑料玩具给了这三个幼儿，但他们对失败的反应截然不同。